Before going on a date I make sure I know myself. Dating could be a scam that leads to abusive lifestyle. Do not be changed by your date, and do not attempt to change your date. If you and your date are different, but like one another that does not mean to change yourself to get closer. I could like someone that is not like me. People who are not like me likes me. The truth is if your date picks up a cigarette and you do not smoke do not smoke with them but show that you like them by being friendly while they smoke. Getting to know your date is putting up with your date even when your date is not exactly what you think a wife ought to be.
MBA Abraham